Word of Advice!

Please nobody should take this personal. I got this message and thought I should share. Its not meant to offend anyone. Someone else may find it helpful.
The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social status symbol in our society. In no-time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians & what have you. Even a question like "So when are u getting divorced?" will become commonplace. If u know u can't handle the weight & pressures of marriage, please remain single. If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do. If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single. If u know u can't be faithful, remain single. If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single. If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single. If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single! Don't get married out of desperation. "All my friends are getting married" is the most foolish reason to get married! If you desire a successful home, but your choice of friends are forces not to reckon with, think again.Be very mindful of where you go for advice, many would give, but not many mean well! Guys, if you know u can't put your wife ahead of your ego, pls remain single till you are mature. Your wife is your priority and EVERYTHING else including you, comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the role model - you are not a deity or God. So do not expect to be worshiped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible! Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag! If you know you can't stand being corrected, please remain single. Mr/Mrs I know it all!!! Ladies check your  domestic scorecard - if your score is zero, please stay in ur parents' house! People  make your marriages work!